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If you are a single, lonely woman in America reading this article, then join the other 50 million women who are feeling the same way. I tell you that there are more than 50 million single women in America not to justify your position, but to put your mind at ease and help you understand that you aren't the only one having a hard time satisfying a man in a way that would allow him to want you, and only you, for the rest of his life.
Luckily for you, HeadDrama has given me an opportunity to share some knowledge about the male libido with you, in a couple of easy steps, that will allow you to have more success with your next man instantly and have him ready to end all of his relationships with all of his “potential” lovers and make you his “main-squeeze” for life.
How to Satisfy a man
Recently, I interviewed several top-notch (single) men looking for a relationship. Basically, I asked them specifically what a woman would have to do to not only satisfy them in a relationship, but to snag them off the market for life. These men so graciously gave me their most coveted desires and needs to share with you and here is the general consensus.
In order to satisfy a good man, a gentleman, you are going to need to add these 4 characteristics to the foundational principle of how you deal with a man:
1. Respect
Ladies, every man has an ego and he wants his woman to stroke his ego and make him feel like he is the man as much as possible. This is a very simple concept to grasp, “Of course, I am his woman... I should respect him.” However, for many this concept is easier said than done.
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A man has to be respected by his lover.
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He wants you to admire and encourage the man he is.
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Essentially this is you being his backbone.
By you respecting and admiring your man he will look to you when he is looking for a solid opinion for one of his life altering decisions. Putting you in a position to be a pivotal person in his life and essentially, exactly where you need to be if you desire to satisfy a man holistically.
{related article: 5 secrets to keep your man in bed}
2. Companionship
Believe it or not, recent studies have shown that more men become emotionally invested in relationships than women do. I know many women may think this is untrue, but when many of us are in a relationship with our women we truly desire her to be our best friend. We want to tell her everything and have her do the same with us. So, by respecting the man that he is and encouraging him to pursue those very dreams the world tells him he can not, he will feel compelled to share things with you that he hasn't shared with anyone else.
Essentially, this will allow you to be that companion he has always been looking for. Ladies, this is not a game. A man needs companionship with the woman he is in a relationship or going to be in a relationship with. Maybe that best friend may become your best lover. Just a thought.
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3. Physical Attraction
Let's be honest ladies, men are visual creatures. We NEED you to look good for us at all times. Let me stress this again, we NEED you to look good for us at all times; this is not a want, it is a NEED.
Now, luckily looking good isn't the same for all men. Not all men want the Kim Kardashian butt and breasts. Sometimes, he just wants YOU to look the best YOU can look every single day. What does this mean ladies? This means it is important for you to take that extra time to keep your “hair done, nails done, everything did” (as Drake would say) daily, for your man. It is also important for to stay in shape, eat right, and dress well to keep that relationship going. And dressing well, doesn't mean you have to have all of the latest Louis Vuitton clothing. It could simply mean you are dressing in clothing that fits you well, is clean, well-taken care of, and suits the occasion.
Now, I know what is easy to do is also easy not to do. However, think about it this way – just like you go to work to make sure your kids can eat, you need to go to the gym, take care of your skin, hair, heels and nails to make sure your man continues to want to “eat” you. Plus, looking good for your man means keeping yourself healthy and feeling good about yourself. We are not that hard to please.
{related article: 6 foods to feed your sex life}
4. Intimacy
The last thing on the list that all men want from their woman (or potential woman) is intimacy. Remember, once you embody the ability to consistently do all of the things we have mentioned on this list, he will want to spend more time with you. Intimacy is like adding wood to a burning fire; it keeps the fire going.
Intimate moments include:
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the road trips
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the walks on the sand
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the sitting on the beach
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the vacations
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the well-thought out sexual experience, etc.
True intimacy doesn't need to be done every day and shouldn't be done every day. Do it well enough for your man to love it when you are doing it, but just enough for him to miss it when you're not.
{related article: spilling your sex fantasy}
Ladies, remember, while there are nearly 50 million single women sharing an over all lack of ability to satisfy a man, there are equally about 46 million single men looking for a woman whom he can satisfy and be satisfied by. So yes, maybe up until this point you haven't been getting the results you've wanted, but it is time to let your hair down and start living by a different code and I assure you, you will begin to achieve massive results in your ability to satisfy your next man.
